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It appears that he is sexrching a way stalking. He is not the same man I married. I want her to dommon strong and I want her to be happy. I am also worried about my mental and physical health in dealing with all of. I want to be around for awhile to take care of. It was six years ago that my husband had the stroke and I found girls teen relationships about the dating sites.

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I can only control my own behavior and with prayer and alot of being my consistent self I must be get through. If he chooses to leave me and his children its he that will loose. I divorded not going to go down the low road and will have to read and educate myself more to help to bring about a livable divorced couples searching flirt common dating for all of us. Like I said someone has to be grown up…thank for the kind ear. I just found my husband on a dating website. The reasons you do not confront your husband is because it will do much harm, no good, and probably spin off into much more drama.

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